Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Need background check and employment verification for successful Marriage

Recently there was a report that cyber crimes have increased and matrimonial web sites are affected/contribute for this malice. One ------- posed himself as IAS/Engineer/Doctor and cheated a number of women--he was able to get the addresses and details of women through matrimonial web sites. Not one or two. He has cheated hundreds like this.



Internet, cell phone--all these helped this person to cheat the people and get married 'n' number of times--take money and run away--go to another place and repeat the same drama. In this even educated engineers, doctors have been cheated.



I am of the view that internet alone is not the reason for these incidents. Without using internet etc. another individual has cheated more than 10/15 women. He is not from affluent section, as it happened in the case of internet marriages. This man posed as beedi factory worker, construction worker, railway worker and cheated women of that range. He had married and got children also and in the end he runs away with whatever money he could make from the women. SO its necessary to take background check and employment verification services.



All these problems are mainly due to the fact many parents arrange for marriages for their wards --secretly without it being let known to their own brothers and sisters. Close relatives are informed only after betrothal is fixed and they are invited for the function. Nothing much can be done at this stage.



There was a time when checking of credentials of bride and bridegroom was a job done by alone. But now the so-called matrimonial verifications are done by the perspective partners themselves-all in the name of knowing partners well.



Matrimonial web sites have become the preferred option for the soul mate seekers in the country and abroad, according to an online survey. It is a huge business and the websitesdon't want to let their clients down by the acts some criminal minded people who use the sites pervertedly. Meanwhile, the alarming growth of cyber crime poses threat to the society as their global growth rate is purportedly four per cent per week

Thanks to the matrimonial verification agencies that have provided people with the opportunity to do so. More and more peiople have started visiting these agencies to do a reality chech about their partnes. What is more interesting here is that they feel that there is nothing wrong in doing so as through these sites, one gets to unearth a totally different side of the partner.

Marriage is not something that one can get into blindly-with being satisfied with the partner's credentials. Tt's a decision of a lifetime.



In the earlier years references were made about the boy or girl to their relatives or the company where the boy/girl works. After getting their views only decisions were taken. Nowadays, speedage everything has got to be done quickly--also desire not to lose what one gets on hand--results in early/quick marriages which turn out to be like the ones we have discussed earlier. Get a best verification service at: Scanurmate.com



Boys/girls are also responsible for this to some extent. A good percentage of them fall in love with colleagues in their place of work and a small percentage of it results in marriage --balance get married through arranged marriages --where they are arranged in hurry--tricksters will continue to cheat others.

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